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What Women Want…

… Is there really a pattern?

Women want good eyebrows, nice nails, a good tan, a good ass, nice boobs, toned legs and no bingo wings right?

Am I even a woman???

My brows need a good shaping but half the stuff I see online now is just plain scary.

Nails… I loved having my nails done every few weeks but when you’re battling the horse shit beneath them or snapping them whilst cracking the pads they’re a bit more of a pain in the Arse…

A tan, I love a natural tan but couldn’t be arsed with faking it and I don’t like sunbeds…

A good ass, nice boobs and no bingo wings… Yeah I’m down with that…

But what do we really want? As women… What do we truly look for, desire and want…

I want a healthy body but above all else I want a healthy mind, I want to love myself so that I can accept the love of others… I want good friendships, someone who will love me unconditionally, I want a family, I want to travel the world…

You see… When looking at what women want… What they really want and desire, I don’t think you can judge by their liked pages or who they’re following on Instagram or Facebook… I think you have to go off their behaviour, how they carry themselves, what they post themselves on their social mediums…

But then… You have to have a conversation with them, know them and immerse yourself in their emotional psyche before you can even remotely understand what it is they want…

Women want to be independent, strong and appreciated…

Women are independent more and more, and strong…

Still under appreciated in a lot of ways and I think that’s what leads to us aiming to be one of these false idols from TV and magazines…

We think that’s what will make us better… We think this is what will get us a life partner… We think this is what will get us that job we want…

I think I’m a bit lost off now with what women want, the scary part is I’m a female and half the time those who are trying to figure out what women want are men… Good luck to them!!!

I’d really love for you to help me out… What do YOU want… And I guess what I’m really intrigued with is WHY you want it…

I’ll give you an example… I would quite fancy a new pair of boobs… Why? Because I’ve lost 5 cup sizes since training and I miss them, but also because when I see a lass who I think is fit/attractive, they generally have a pair of big albeit fake boobies… Do I really want them?

I’ll probably get over the idea at some point, I probably would like them for a little bit then moan about getting clothes that fit properly, mine are canny really… They’re just not what I view as perfect… I guess it’s a bit of a grey area…

It’s time to eliminate the grey area in our own heads…

I want to know what you want, why you want it and then I want you to tell me… do you really really want it?

S x

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